There are stories everywhere.
I can’t not notice them.
And there’s symbolism in these stories. They serve as analogies of our lives.
I can’t not notice that either.
This is a story about a hot dog.
… but, really, it’s about more than a hot dog.
It’s sort of like The Ladybug in the Bathtub, which if you haven’t read (but really, you should click on the link to read), was about spreading your wings to fly before getting eaten by an evil cat.
You know, symbolism….
The hot dog story takes place at a ballgame. We had nose-bleed-high seats near the top of the stadium. Many stairs up. Two innings in, a large family arrived to fill the rest of our row.
We stood to let them pass to their seats.
As soon as they got settled, the mom offered to get food for the family. (How did I know she was the mom? Maybe it was all those kids yelling, “MOM!” in her direction…)
She headed out (we stood to let her pass), and down the many stairs.
She came back at the bottom of the 3rd – lines were long at concessions – climbing the stairs cautiously with cardboard containers precariously stacked. (We stood to let her pass) and she handed out the differently-topped hot dogs to each proper recipient.
But one was without its requested ketchup.
And she was short on napkins.
Worst of all, she realized she had completely forgotten to take her husband’s order. He had no hot dog!
Sucks for you, Dad!
She immediately offered to go back for the missing items and moments later, arms now unloaded, off she went (we stood to let her pass, yup, again), down the stairs.
(Here’s where I’m thinking Hubby can get his own damn hot dog…)
The lines must have still been crazy long because she didn’t make it back up the stairs until the bottom of the 4th (we stood to let her pass) when she handed out the remaining food.
About two minutes later, one of the kids needed to go to the bathroom.
So off she went again (we stood to let her pass), down the stairs with junior in tow.
Back they came, quads again activated up the stairs – at the top of the 5th. (We stood to let her pass… kind of the theme for the day…)
Which was about the time her family started asking for dessert – several ice-cream sundaes in those plastic helmet cups, one cotton candy.
We resisted the urge (as we stood to let her pass), to place our own order as well. I mean, if she’s going to keep going up and down these stairs, how hard would it be to bring back a few bottles of water?
I’ll cut the story here to recap:
This woman came to a baseball game but missed nearly all of it, so busy running errands for her family – back and forth, up and down the stairs, orders and re-orders, bathroom breaks, and baseball helmet sundaes.
I want to be clear I was not judging. I was simply observing.
I don’t know her story.
Maybe she hates baseball and had no interest in the game. Maybe she lives to serve. Maybe it’s absolutely none of my business.
But it got me thinking… not about her story, but about mine.
And everyone else’s.
What’s your hot dog?
Your symbolic hot dog, silly.
I’ll put it in quotes so you get the symbolism:
What is the “hot dog” in your life that you keep running for, up and down the stairs, to serve someone else?
How often do you put the needs of your “family” ahead of your own? (And your “family” can mean your work colleagues, your dramatic friend, the angry lady ahead of you in line in CVS…)
What is the impact of missing the “ballgame” because you’re so busy taking care of everyone else’s needs?
Why do you keep “climbing the stairs” but not really getting anywhere?
If someone says to you, “What do you want?” are you ready to place your order?
(And no, I’m not talking about actual hot dogs, but if we were I’d take one with mustard, an overpriced beer, and a solid view of the game).
To the Lady with the Large Family… I think you’re great. You clearly love your family and you’re willing to do anything for them. And you got a lot of exercise that day. (So did I, all that up and down to stand and let you pass…)
I’m just wondering what you might like to order if you could get anything you wanted on the Menu of Life.
Give it some thought.
You’ve got 9 innings to live. Don’t waste them fetching someone else’s hot dog.
Valerie Gordon is a longtime storyteller, a 10x Emmy-winning producer, and the founder of career and communication firm The Storytelling Strategist. She helps clients find the power in their own stories for greater success and satisfaction at work and in life. When she goes with her family to a ballgame, they carry their own hot dogs.